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	<title>Comments on: When We Begin To Let Love In</title>
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	<description>tonight we drink to youth.</description>
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		<title>By: Roni M.</title>
		<link>http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/12/09/when-we-begin-to-let-love-in/comment-page-1/#comment-24847</link>
		<dc:creator>Roni M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 08:51:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;2-year old blog post bookmarked, and it still speaks powerfully to me to this day. http://t.co/ZPXp69cq via @20orsomething &lt;3&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">2-year old blog post bookmarked, and it still speaks powerfully to me to this day. <a href="http://t.co/ZPXp69cq" rel="nofollow">http://t.co/ZPXp69cq</a> via @20orsomething &lt;3</span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Am I Content With Loneliness?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Am I Content With Loneliness?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 00:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Maybe this confession means I’m getting ready to lay down this guard, to open my heart and let love in. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Susan Pogorzelski - admin</title>
		<link>http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/12/09/when-we-begin-to-let-love-in/comment-page-1/#comment-5521</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Pogorzelski - admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 14:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt; Brianne: &lt;/b&gt; I want to thank you for, and agree with, your entire comment because you just articulated my very own thoughts and beliefs so beautifully. And I hope that everyone stopping by here reads your comment, as I know I will do time and again when I need a reminder. Feel what you feel, but also have strength and have hope. Wonderfully said. 

Thanks, Brianne, for being here. I do hope that people will take you up on your offer to talk; I&#039;m looking forward to keeping in touch with you as well.

Wishing you the very best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b> Brianne: </b> I want to thank you for, and agree with, your entire comment because you just articulated my very own thoughts and beliefs so beautifully. And I hope that everyone stopping by here reads your comment, as I know I will do time and again when I need a reminder. Feel what you feel, but also have strength and have hope. Wonderfully said. </p>
<p>Thanks, Brianne, for being here. I do hope that people will take you up on your offer to talk; I&#8217;m looking forward to keeping in touch with you as well.</p>
<p>Wishing you the very best.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Pogorzelski - admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Pogorzelski - admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 14:20:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt; Beth: &lt;/b&gt; Thanks so much for your comment, though I&#039;m sorry for being a bit late in responding...It&#039;s funny: sometimes I think about the possibility of relationships again and wonder if I&#039;ve become so independent that I can&#039;t learn to rely on another again. A ridiculous thought, and the answer is yes, of course, because I always think there&#039;s a balance, but the thought is there. Actually, I think you say it best: 

&quot;...shutting people out and shutting new things out in order to preserve this need for independence and my own strength&quot;

I think my thoughts are two-fold. While I want to be open to the idea of love, you articulated my very hesitation. I&#039;d only just rediscovered myself, and now it will be a journey to rediscover myself with someone else. It&#039;s exciting, though. I&#039;m looking forward to seeing where it all leads. But I can&#039;t help but wonder where independence ends and dependence begins. Would look forward to hearing how you did that with your husband...

Thanks for the comment and thanks, as always, for stopping by. We really should plan a time to talk sometime! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b> Beth: </b> Thanks so much for your comment, though I&#8217;m sorry for being a bit late in responding&#8230;It&#8217;s funny: sometimes I think about the possibility of relationships again and wonder if I&#8217;ve become so independent that I can&#8217;t learn to rely on another again. A ridiculous thought, and the answer is yes, of course, because I always think there&#8217;s a balance, but the thought is there. Actually, I think you say it best: </p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;shutting people out and shutting new things out in order to preserve this need for independence and my own strength&#8221;</p>
<p>I think my thoughts are two-fold. While I want to be open to the idea of love, you articulated my very hesitation. I&#8217;d only just rediscovered myself, and now it will be a journey to rediscover myself with someone else. It&#8217;s exciting, though. I&#8217;m looking forward to seeing where it all leads. But I can&#8217;t help but wonder where independence ends and dependence begins. Would look forward to hearing how you did that with your husband&#8230;</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment and thanks, as always, for stopping by. We really should plan a time to talk sometime! <img src='http://twentyorsomething.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: twenty(or)something &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Letting Go of Yesterday</title>
		<link>http://twentyorsomething.com/2009/12/09/when-we-begin-to-let-love-in/comment-page-1/#comment-5464</link>
		<dc:creator>twenty(or)something &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Letting Go of Yesterday</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 18:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] It was a year of being lost, being found, and being in that in-between. It was, in fact, a year of healing – in every single possible [...]</description>
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